Interpersonal Energetic Clearing Guide

INTRODUCTION
While writing an email to Ophelia (see Is Biological Ascension an Example of Reality Inflation) about the explorations of the deconstruction of the love-meme and its possible replacement with the concept of 'connecting' I came across the concept of the 'Interpersonal Clearing Guide'. I would like to expand a bit on this idea here.

...now in contrast to the previous relations the one with my present partner was very strong and intensive but in a totally different way, i felt guided from within, i felt almost told what to do from within in the sense i KNEW i was to stay with him whatever it takes and i knew we would have a child together. we spoke about it after a week of knowing each other.

I've always pondered on the question of how much all of this is MY conscious decision and how much is predestined and a result of some sort of programming, even the part that after being interested in spirituality for a while (I'm referring to a few years ago) I decided that the person I choose to be with has to be spiritually aware, has to to have interest in things one can't fully explain and in the depth of life and human nature. Maybe even that part was predesigned and not a result of some sort of spiritual development as I may want to see it?

or maybe ....we decide, and we create?

During my process in the last couple of years I have learnt that it really doesn't matter too much if something is really true or not. What matters more is that a certain idea can prove to be useful for your own growth. When you add to this the possibility that we are creators that are able to create our own reality, we might just turn something real by fueling it with our creative energy.

INTERPERSONAL CLEARING GUIDE
From this perspective I have found it useful to play around with the idea of a 'Interpersonal Clearing Guide' that I have defined as 'some energetic non-physical assistant that is especially equipped to remove harmful thoughtforms that are triggered by interpersonal interaction'.

In case you are not familiar with it, this Interpersonal Clearing Guide just arises out of thin air as soon as two people meet each other. This assistant can be tuned into if one wants to create a higher vibratory level of awareness together, instead of a dependent love relationship.

The only thing you need to do is to tune into this I.C. Guide and you can receive the guidance you need in order to develop your own skills in running your own energy. This I.C. Guide works very closely with the multidimensional selves that both 'relationship participants' have themselves which makes it even more likely to produce clearing results that you couldn't easily obtain when you are with yourself on your own.

MY CONSCIOUS DECISION, PROGRAMMING, PREDESTINATION
As far as the concept of the interpersonal clearing guide is concerned I would prefer to create a reality in which there is such an assistant which you can tune into in order to help release blockages, ancient memories, distorted thoughtform etc.

I'd like to think that I can benefit more from this guide if I accept its reality and if I feed the concept with my own energy. This might allow me to bypass other programming, like the programming dealing with 'falling in love', 'staying together for ever', 'marriage' etc.

Until now I have used the term programming especially for malevolent energy-draining practices that would only lead to someone losing their energy. When I think about predestination I prefer to combine it with consciousness in order for it to work best. If you allow for the creation of an 'interpersonal clearing guide' you are in a way saying that you open up to learn as much as possible from a relationship in a way that is useful for both 'partners'.

You also realize that it is often only temporary; the dance ends as soon as the lessons are learnt and the reality perspective of both participants are slightly (or greatly) altered in order for them to allow for a smoother flow of more harmless energy within their bodies.

It would make sense to use your conscious awareness as much as possible in order to be able to translate both the signals of all your subtle bodies and other information sources, together with tuning into the 'interpersonal clearing guide', and not allow for any 'mind-narrowing' habits that might be triggered through all kinds of hormonal, chemical processes.

What I have also found is that it might prove to be a useful interpersonal approach to try and act as 'explorers' instead of 'lovers'